Could You be Suffering from Orthorexia?

For some people, interest in healthy food can transform into an eating disorder. The Authorized Bratman Orthorexia Self-Test below is designed to help you determine whether you have come close to, or have already crossed, that line.

The Bratman Orthorexia Self-Test

If you are a healthy-diet enthusiast, and you answer yes to any of the following questions, you may be developing orthorexia nervosa:

(1) I spend so much of my life thinking about, choosing and preparing healthy food that it interferes with other dimensions of my life, such as love, creativity, family, friendship, work and school.

(2) When I eat any food I regard to be unhealthy, I feel anxious, guilty, impure, unclean and/or defiled; even to be near such foods disturbs me, and I feel judgmental of others who eat such foods.

(3) My personal sense of peace, happiness, joy, safety and self-esteem is excessively dependent on the purity and rightness of what I eat.

(4) Sometimes I would like to relax my self-imposed “good food” rules for a special occasion, such as a wedding or a meal with family or friends, but I find that I cannot. (Note: If you have a medical condition in which it is unsafe for you to make ANY exception to your diet, then this item does not apply.)

(5) Over time, I have steadily eliminated more foods and expanded my list of food rules in an attempt to maintain or enhance health benefits; sometimes, I may take an existing food theory and add to it with beliefs of my own.

(6) Following my theory of healthy eating has caused me to lose more weight than most people would say is good for me, or has caused other signs of malnutrition such as hair loss, loss of menstruation or skin problems.

 

If you feel you may be suffering from orthorexia, contact us today for a free initial consultation.

Do You Want to Be Thin or Do You Want to be Loved?

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Do you feel like you have to be thin to feel loved, cherished, respected or cared for??? If so, ask yourself…

Who do you love because they are thin?
Who do you want to spend time with because they are not fat?
Who makes you laugh with their slenderness??
Who has changed your life, helped you when you needed it or saved you when you needed saving – with their shapely thighs?
And who will remember you when you are gone because you don’t take up much space?

I personally have never loved, cherished, appreciated, needed, respected or found anybody more interesting or lovable because they were thin, “in shape”, fit into a certain size jeans, weighed less than me, had a flat stomach or couldn’t pinch an inch.

Have you?

Eating for Pleasure

eat what you loveIn our quest to be thin and/or to eat healthy, we often overlook the fact that eating should be a pleasurable experience.

Consider for a second….How much do you actually enjoy the diet and/or health foods that you have been eating?

Do you really always prefer a fruit smoothie over a milkshake?

Wouldn’t you rather have pizza sometimes instead of the chicken and broccoli you’ve been told you SHOULD eat?

Could you go the rest of your life without eating another bowl of oatmeal? or another flax seed?

Start seeking satisfaction then!

Eat what you love.  When you let yourself eat what you want, the pleasure you derive will help you feel like you’ve eaten enough sooner than if you eat what you think you “should” eat or are “supposed” to eat. Plus, when you aren’t feeling deprived you won’t be driven to overeat, binge or eat like its the “last supper” as often.

Start by asking yourself what you’d really like to eat (NOT what you “should” eat). Set the table, put out the “good china”, turn off distractions – make your meals special occasions. Focus on the taste and texture of what you are eating. Enjoy your food!

There is a big difference between standing in front of the fridge quickly and shamefully eating ice cream from the carton versus serving yourself that same ice cream in a beautiful bowl, sitting down to eat with a place setting and napkin and giving yourself time and permission to really focus on how good the ice cream tastes.

The more pleasurable you feel the eating experience is, the more likely you are to stop eating when your physical needs have been met.

So how do you learn to get the most satisfaction from your food? Learn to eat intuitively! Intuitive eating can help you get the most pleasure out of the food that you eat so that you are ready to stop eating when you’ve had enough.

Challenge the Food Police!

food policeWant off the dieting chain gang???? Challenge the Food Police!!

The 4th Principle of Intuitive Eating is to stop the voices in your head (the “Food Police”) that tell you that you are “good” for eating a certain way and “bad” for eating another way.

The Food Police monitor the collection of rules that you have created as you have gone on and off diets. As soon as you’d like to enjoy a piece of birthday cake or reach for a cookie, you’ll hear the Food Police spit out negative comments, hopeless indictments and guilt-provoking criticisms. 

There is no morality tied to nourishing your body a certain way or to enjoying the taste of food!!!

You are not good if you stay on a diet and bad if you fall off.

You are not “better” when you weigh less or “worse” when you are heavier.

The way you eat is not a reflection of your worth.

The irony of the Food Police is that the intent of all the policing is to keep us from eating certain foods. The reality is, the deprivation we feel when we don’t eat what we want (and the guilt and shame we feel when we go against the Police and do) only drive us to eat more!

Silencing the relentless Food Police is a critical step in returning to Intuitive Eating.

Respecting Your Fullness

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To respect your fullness means to listen for the signs your body sends you when it’s satisfied, approaching fullness and full — and to make decisions about whether to stop eating taking this information into account.

When you eat, start observing your body’s signals that tell you you’ve had enough. If this doesn’t come naturally to you yet it’s to be expected. You may simply need to pause in the middle of a meal and ask yourself if you are still hungry or if you could happily stop eating for the time being.

If you have rejected the diet mentality, have stopped depriving yourself of your favorite foods, are eating when you are hungry and are learning to eat what you want when you want it without apology, you will find that your body will tell you exactly when it’s had enough – if you will listen.

Do You Use Food to Cope with Life?

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Do you use food to cope with life? Anxiety, loneliness, boredom, worry and anger are emotions every human experiences. Although food may comfort you for the short term, distract you temporarily from your pain, help you zone out for a moment or even numb you into a “food hangover”, food won’t solve the problems that drive you to eat or abolish any of your negative feelings. If anything, eating for emotional hunger instead of physical hunger will only make you feel worse. When you are finished eating, you will still have to deal with the issues that drove you to eat — as well as negative emotions you might feel about eating.

 

Learning how to eat intuitively means learning how to eat when you are hungry and how to cope in other ways when what is driving you to eat is life and not a physical need for nourishment.

Ways to cope without food are many and include:

– sitting down and focusing on solving the problem that is driving you to eat
– Sitting with and experiencing the feelings until they pass
– writing about your feelings (or anything else)
– playing a game
– phoning a friend
– listening to music or a podcast
– practicing an instrument
– fixing something that is broken
– redecorating a room in your house
– browsing the internet
– watching tv or a movie
– gardening
– exercising
– taking a shower or bath
– cleaning out a closet
– sweeping the porch
– playing or just cuddling with your dog
– interacting on social media
– reading
– counting your blessings
– praying

What are some of the ways that you cope besides eating?

What the Diet Industry Would Hate for You to Find Out

The diet industry is a 20 billion dollar a year industry.  In the US, 108 million people are dieting at any given moment in an attempt to lose weight and reshape their bodies. 85% of these dieters are women.

There are a lot of things the diet industry would hate for you to realize like…

  • 95% of all dieters regain the weight they lost within 5 years. Many gain back even more weight and end up heavier than when they started. Why would you starve yourself for weeks or months on end to just end up further away from your goal?  Well, it might not work for you but guess who it DOES work for? Yep! The diet industry – now they get to sell even more programs, plans, pills, etc to even more desperate dieters!
  • The average dieter goes on 4-5 diets a year. Why is this? Because diets don’t work obviously. If they worked you’d go on one diet, lose the weight and never have to diet again right?
  • Diets are harmful to your health. Studies show that losing and regaining weight is harder on your body and more unhealthy than maintaining your initial heavier weight without ever having dieted.
  • Dieting is a set up for failure. Most people blame themselves and a lack of willpower for their diet failures when really the fault lies with the diet itself. Falling off a diet has nothing to do with willpower. Diet failure is simply the body responding to hunger and a state of semi-starvation or starvation. The body and mind react to a diet in the same way they would to starvation — the body’s metabolism decreases and cravings increase.
  • Diet companies profit when you fail at your diet, blame yourself and pay to sign up again to start the diet anew. What a racket! Would you take your car to a mechanic if he never actually fixed the problems but just kept your car running good enough to drive it back to the shop? How about it every time you took the car in to be “fixed” the car came back with even bigger and more expensive problems?
  • Diets lower your basal metabolism, making it almost impossible to keep off the weight you’ve lost and even harder to lose weight in the future.
  • In addition to continuing to diet, dieters who do manage to lose 30 lbs or more and keep it off for more than 5 years spend on average 1 hour or more a day exercising in an attempt to maintain their new weight.
  • Dieting is a precursor of eating disorders like bulimia, binge eating disorder and orthorexia. The National Eating Disorders Association reports that 35% of “normal dieters” progress to pathological dieting and that 20-25% of those individuals develop eating disorders.
  • You do not have to diet to arrive at or maintain a healthy weight. Intuitive eating teaches individuals how to look inside themselves and listen to internal cues AND provides guidance on how to form a healthy relationship with food. It is an anti-diet approach to eating. There are no rules to break and no temptations to resist. Intuitive eating, unlike dieting and meal planning, is not a set up for failure. Intuitive eaters have been shown to be happier, healthier and to have an easier time managing their weight than dieters.

Ready to ditch dieting and the diet industry and start learning to eat intuitively? Contact us today (or click here) to learn more about our Intuitive Eating coaching.

 

 

Sources: John LaRosa of MarketData; National Weight Control Registry; American Society for Metabolic and Bariatric Surgery; Eating Disorders Hope.

 

 

 

Are you a Victim of Beauty Sickness?

Girls grow up hearing both implicit and explicit messages suggesting that the most important attribute they can strive for is beauty. The chronic focus on beauty directs cognitive, financial, and emotional resources away from other more important goals. Dr. Engeln considers whether there is hope for treating the epidemic of beauty sickness and what it might be like to live in a world where women feel free to spend less time in front of the mirror and more time changing the world.

How about you? Do you struggle to truly live your life because you are waiting until you look just right?

 

 

Respecting Fullness is Respecting Yourself

empty or fullRespecting your fullness means listening for the signals your body sends when it’s satisfied, approaching fullness and full — and making decisions about whether to stop or continue eating considering what your body is telling you. In a nutshell, respecting your fullness means not eating past fullness.

Respecting your fullness will help you arrive at the weight where your body is happiest and healthiest. This is also the weight that will be easiest for you to maintain long term. Remember – losing and regaining weight is more harmful to your body and psyche than staying at a heavier weight.

When learning to respect your fullness and stop eating when satisfied, remember the following:

  • Eliminating distractions can really help you tune into your body’s efforts to communicate when it is satisfied, full or still hungry. If you are reading, talking, watching tv, browsing the internet or daydreaming it will be easy to miss your body’s attempts to tell you it has had enough.
  • Eat slowly. It takes time for your body to register that it is satisfied. Eating slowly will help make sure that you don’t get too full before your body has had the time to register that it’s had enough.
  • If you are really enjoying a food and want to keep eating for the taste even though you recognize you are no longer hungry, remember you can finish it later. Put it aside and check back with yourself an hour later to see if you are hungry again. If so, eat some more. If not, wait until you are hungry. You will enjoy the food even more if you eat it when you are hungry!
  • Fullness and satiety can feel different for everyone. Figure out your body’s unique ways of telling you it is satisfied, full and still hungry. Most of us do not know how to interpret the signals our body sends right way so expect to have to practice for a while. Trial and error will bring you closer to recognizing when you are satisfied than any article or book can.
  • Trust your body to tell you when to stop and when to keep eating – you CAN leave food on your plate and you CAN go back for more. Your mind may try and take over and make rules and restrictions (or justify eating when you’re already satisfied) but only your body knows what it needs in any situation. Dieting has allowed your mind to be in charge for years. It’s time to let the true expert – your body- take charge.
  • Respecting your fullness requires that you also respect your hunger. It is difficult to eat slowly and mindfully when you have let yourself get too hungry.
  • Don’t let all the focus on signals of fullness keep you from enjoying your food. Continue to savor every bite.
  • Remember — Satisfied, not deprived or uncomfortably stuffed, is what you are aiming for.
  • If you happen to miss your body’s signals that it’s satisfied and eat to the point of being uncomfortably full, don’t beat yourself up. Chalk it up to a learning experience and make it a personal challenge to figure out how to keep it from happening the next time.

Respecting your fullness, like respecting your hunger, is respecting yourself!

7 Reasons Not to Diet

dont dietThere are more than enough reasons to ditch your diet and to start eating intuitively instead. Here are a just a few…

1) Diets don’t work for 98-99% of dieters which means only 1-2 people out of every 100 dieters will keep the weight they lose off. Most dieters regain almost all of what they lose (if they lose at all) and many regain even more weight.  In fact,  your odds of being fatter 6 months from now if you go on a diet today are greater than if you don’t go on a diet.

2) Diets set dieters up for binges. Restrictive diets make for deprived dieters. Deprived dieters are more prone to binge on foods that are restricted in their diet, whether that be sugar, carbs or fats. Binges make these now-stuffed-dieters feel guilty and ashamed and even more committed to start another diet, starting the vicious dieting cycle over again. (You know the drill!)

3) Dieting can be very bad for your health. Dieting in general has been linked to an increase in high blood pressure,  type-2 diabetes and increased cortisol levels (the “stress hormone”).   More intense dieting can increase hormones such as insulin and estrogen causing you to put on weight around your middle, which research has linked to insulin resistance and heart disease. Yo-yo dieting (losing and then regaining weight over and over again) has been shown to increase obesity, shorten life expectancy and lead to depressive disorders related to successive failures.

Additionally, in order to cause weight loss, diets must restrict energy (calories) which can decrease immune system function. Many diets also restrict at least one food group which can result in a loss of important vitamins and minerals. Low-carbohydrate/high-protein diets may increase your risk of heart disease and cancer, in addition to causing problems such as dehydration,  headaches and constipation. And finally, low-fat diets can raise triglycerides and lower HDL (good) cholesterol and testosterone.

4) Dieting can lead to obsessive thoughts about food and body image, disordered eating and even full-blown eating disorders. One particularly sad study followed young dieters over the course of a decade and found that the younger they started dieting, the more prone they were as adults to engage in self-harming behaviors like alcohol abuse and self-induced vomiting.

5) Diets make you feel bad. In order to lose weight even temporarily,  a diet must restrict calories so that your body burns more calories than you consume.  When you eat fewer calories than your body needs,  you don’t feel your best.  Common side effects of dieting include lethargy, sleepiness, physical weakness, headaches, leg cramps, depression and anxiety.

6)  Diets teach you to ignore your body’s natural signals of hunger and fullness, overriding your innate ability to know when to eat and when to stop eating. Following a diet means you aren’t learning how to eat on your own so if you go on a diet to lose weight, you will need to stay on a diet to maintain your weight loss. Translation: you can never stop dieting once you start (without regaining).

7) Every time you lose weight and regain it, the regained weight is increasingly difficult to lose. The body remembers the effects of deprivation caused by the succession of diets over the years, and stores more in reserve in preparation for future diets. Studies show that when dieters lose weight and then regain the same weight, they end up with more body fat and less muscle than when they started.

So how do you manage your weight without a diet?

By learning to eat intuitively…. rejecting the diet mentality, learning to honor your hunger (and fullness) and eating what is physically satisfying to you. Learn more by reading through more of our blog articles l and then contact us to discuss setting up an initial coaching consultation.

The Intuitive Eater’s Holiday Bill of Rights

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The Intuitive Eater’s Holiday Bill of Rights

by Evelyn Tribole, MS, RD

What if peace on earth could begin at the dinner table? Imagine experiencing an inner peace, free from incessant worry about what to eat. It’s hard to enjoy the holidays when you are preoccupied with eating or worried about what to say to relatives who have an annual tradition of telling you what and how to eat.

Consider your Intuitive Eating Bill of Rights, as we enter the holiday season, to help you foster inner peace with food, mind and body.

1. You have the right to savor your meal, without cajoling or judgment, and without discussion of calories eaten or the amount of exercise needed to burn off said calories.

2. You have the right to enjoy second servings without apology.

3. You have the right to honor your fullness, even if that means saying “no thank you” to dessert or a second helping of food.

4. It is not your responsibility to make someone happy by overeating, even if it took hours to prepare a specialty holiday dish.

5. You have the right to say, “No thank you,” without explanation, when offered more food.

6. You have the right to stick to your original answer of “no”, even if you are asked multiple times. Just calmly and politely repeat “No, thank you, really.”

7. You have the right to eat pumpkin pie for breakfast.

Remember, no one, except for you, knows how you feel, both emotionally and physically. Only you can be the expert of your body, which requires inner attunement, rather than the external, well-meaning, suggestions from family.

Reprinted with permission. Copyright © 2010 by Evelyn Tribole, MS, RD Published at www.IntuitiveEating.org

Have You Been Jailed by the Food Police?

food policeThe 4th Principle of Intuitive Eating is to free yourself from the voices in your head (the “Food Police”) that tell you that you are “good” for eating a certain way and “bad” for eating another way.

The Food Police monitor the large collection of rules that you have created as you have gone on and off diets. As soon as you’d like to enjoy a piece of birthday cake or reach for a cookie, you’ll hear the Food Police spit out negative comments, hopeless indictments and guilt-provoking criticisms.  Here are just a few of the common comments made by the Food Police…

  • That is fattening
  • That has too many calories
  • That has too much fat
  • That is bad for you
  • That has too many carbs
  • That has too much sugar
  • If you eat that, you will get fat.
  • If you start eating that, you won’t be able to stop.
  • That will ruin your dinner
  • You shouldn’t have/want that
  • Don’t eat that. Avoid the temptation.

What the Food Police wants you to believe is that you are bad for eating one way, and good for eating another.

You are not “good” if you stay on a diet (or “bad” if you fall off)!

You are not “better” when you weigh less or “worse” when you are heavier!

It is not illegal to nourish your body a certain way or to enjoy the taste of food!!!

The way you eat is not a reflection of your worth!

The irony of the Food Police is that the intent of all the policing is to keep us from eating certain foods. The reality is, the deprivation we feel when we don’t eat what we want (and the guilt and shame we feel when we go against the Police and do) only drive us to eat more!

Silencing the relentless Food Police is a critical step to learning to eat intuitively.

Honor Your Hunger

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You know deep down that dieting is futile, that you want off the lose weight-regain weight roller coaster and you’re starting to think that Intuitive Eating might be for you. So how do you start learning to eat intuitively? By honoring your hunger.

Honor your hunger is the 2nd principle of Intuitive Eating.

You may be wondering what it means to honor your hunger.  Simple – Eat when you are physically hungry!

Now that you are a non-dieter, gone are the days of waking hungry and using coffee to blunt your appetite. If you wake hungry, you eat.

And no more eating every 2-3 hours to “stoke your metabolism”. If you are actually hungry every 2-3 hours, you eat. If not, you wait until you are hungry.

It’s lunch time and you aren’t hungry. You don’t eat.

If you skip dinner because you aren’t hungry and wake at 2am starving, you eat.

Skipping meals and letting yourself get over-hungry will surely make any attempt at moderation more difficult leading to overeating (and even bingeing) when you do decide to eat. Also, being over hungry will generally make you eat faster not giving your body time to let you know you are satisfied before you’re stuffed. Finally, not eating when you’re hungry sends you the message that you need to restrict, limit or starve yourself, none of which are necessary or recommended to manage your weight with intuitive eating.

So if you aren’t hungry right now, keep reading our blog articles on Intuitive Eating or contact us to set up your first Intuitive Eating coaching session. And, if  you ARE hungry, go eat!

On “Clean” Eating

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Eating “Clean” Will Not Get You into Heaven (and other Thoughts about the Diet that “Isn’t a Diet”….)

There is no definition of “clean” when it comes to nutrition. When somebody says they are eating clean it really just means that they are restricting themselves to a list of foods that they personally see as pure and good, whatever they have determined those are.

When people who consider themselves clean eaters cheat or veer from their clean eating strategy and eat something not-so-clean it implies that they are doing something bad or shameful by eating a “dirty” food.

When did it become sinful or immoral to eat sugar? or bread? Why are people being told to feel shame if they eat a doughnut?

You are not good because you only eat “clean” foods any more than that you are bad if you eat junk foods. What you put in your mouth does not determine the content of your character.

Eating clean is just a convenient way for people who consider themselves above diets to diet under the guise of being healthy.

Studies show that any way of eating that restricts you to a certain type or class of food will eventually drive you to crave and binge on the foods you do not allow yourself which is why people who “eat clean” find themselves cheating on their diet (that isn’t a diet) by eating junk food.

What about if we just ate when we were hungry and stopped when when we were full? Or if we just ate whatever we wanted… Not the food we “should” eat avoiding the food we “shouldn’t” eat — but the food we enjoyed and the food that made our body feel fueled and satisfied? Well, that nutrition philosophy is called “Intuitive Eating” and research says we’d not only be happier but we’d be healthier if we ate that way!

Want to learn more about intuitive eating? Start Here

Why Not Eating When You Are Hungry Is a Bad Idea

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Contrary to what we’ve been taught by the media and weight loss companies, going hungry will not help you lose weight. In fact, if weight loss is your goal, going hungry is more likely to be working against you. Consider the following…

  • Ignoring your hunger sets your body up to physically rebel by making you focus only on eating and food. Your attempts to push down your hunger cause your brain to focus more and more on eating and food. Your body has one driving goal – survival. To survive your body must sleep, eat and drink water. Attempts to deny your body of these most basic needs will be overridden by your survival instinct, which is much stronger than your willpower or your desire to lose weight — and not because you are weak, this is true for humans in general. We are only here on this earth today because our ancestors had strong enough survival instincts to drive them to eat, slept and drink water long enough to procreate!
  • Ignoring your hunger sets your body up to seek out higher calorie foods than you normally might look for if you ate when you were moderately hungry. The hungrier you are the more your body will search out foods that are higher in calories. Most attempts to put off hunger are met with cravings later in the day for foods high in sugar and fat which is why many dieters who eat a very small breakfast (or skip it completely) and restrict at lunch will find themselves binging in the evening on high-calorie foods.
  • Ignoring your hunger will make you more likely to choose poorly at your next meal. The hungrier we are the less time we will give ourselves to figure out what we really want to eat when we do eat. Extreme hunger will drive us to eat the first or most convenient food available, which is not always what you really would want to eat if you weren’t so driven to eat right in that moment.  The foods you choose when you are extremely hungry might fill you up physically and meet your body’s energy requirements but often aren’t psychologically satisfying, leaving you wanting for something else even after you are no longer physically hungry.
  • Ignoring your hunger will make you more likely to not savor your next meal. When we are extremely hungry, we are more likely to eat so fast that we cannot savor or enjoy the food. Like choosing foods that are satisfying, not savoring our food sets us up for overeating as we continue to search for the feeling of being satisfied even after the physical need of fullness has been met.
  • Ignoring your hunger will make you more likely to eat past fullness at your next meal. Eating quickly out of hunger doesn’t only mean that we won’t savor or enjoy the food we eat. When we let ourselves get too hungry we end up eating so fast that we miss the signs that our body sends telling us we are full, leading to eating more than we physically need.
  • Going hungry sends messages to your body to conserve energy. Even if you are able to refrain from eating when hungry and manage to override all your body’s attempts to get you to eat more and/or to eat higher caloric foods, your body has other ways of saving energy and protecting itself from weight loss (which it sees as a threat to its survival). Lowering your basal metabolism is one of these adaptations as is reducing your drive to exercise, move (and even get up off the couch!) and increasing your desire to rest and sleep more hours.  These adjustments are made to balance your energy output with the reduced number of calories you are consuming.

Contact us to learn how we can help you eat intuitively and leave dieting behind for good!

Reject the Diet Mentality!

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The first principle of intuitive eating (a strategy that utilizes your body’s inherent knowledge, genetic programming and instinct to help you manage your weight) is to Reject the Dieting Mentality.

This oh-so-important step is where you decide here and now that you will never diet again. Never. Ever.

Easy enough since nobody likes to diet, right??? Well…

Unfortunately, for many of us this could be the most challenging of all the Intuitive Eating principles. And why would we expect it to be easy? Over 100 million Americans are on a diet at any given moment. Little girls as young as 5 put themselves on diets, mimicking their mom and other female role models. Supermodels get thinner and thinner and airbrushing/photo-editing take more and more off of bodies in ads and other public images, slimming them into ideals that can only be obtained (theoretically) by dieting. We live in a superficial culture flooded by media messages intended to sell us products that promise us the moon and because we’ve believed for so long that there isn’t another option – we diet.

We diet, depriving ourselves of all the foods we love until we can’t resist any more and we cave. We fall off our diet and eat all the foods we’ve restricted while dieting…which makes us feel guilty and ashamed – which either drives us right back into another diet or drives us to eat even MORE of all the foods we’ve been craving. It is a vicious, vicious cycle that ends up making us fatter with each go around. Been there?

So….how do you get off this crazy train?

Decide not to ever diet again. Accept the fact that diets are futile. Rebel against the 61+ billion dollar diet industry that puts out diet after diet and diet product after diet product while never helping anybody lose weight and keep it off.

Choose today not to play the game anymore. Look at your own history of dieting – are you any thinner now than when you went on your very first diet? Who do you know who has lost weight and kept it off for a significant amount of time without continuing to ride the diet roller coaster? Call up Jenny Craig or the Atkins people or Weight Watchers or any of your favorite weight loss companies and ask for them to send you statistics on how many of the people paying them their good hard-earned money ever actually lose weight and keep it off – but please don’t hold your breath for them to get back to you.

And if your own diet experiences and the failures of all the “experts” aren’t enough to convince you that diets don’t work it’s hard to argue with researchers at UCLA who did a meta-analysis (a study of 31 other long-term studies) and found that the majority of dieters regained ALL weight lost and THEN SOME and that they would have been better off in the long run simply maintaining their heavier weight rather than dieting in the first place!

Wouldn’t you be happier if you could manage your weight by eating what you wanted when you were hungry and stopping when you were full? Don’t you LOVE the idea of never counting another calorie, carb, fat gram or point? Imagine yourself NOT checking a nutrition label for once or choosing from a menu based on what you really felt like eating, not on what you think you are “supposed” to eat. Free yourself of the shame, guilt and obsession of dieting by vowing to never diet again – REJECT THE DIET MENTALITY!

Make Love – Not War – With Food

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So as an Intuitive Eater, what are you supposed to eat?

Well, after many years of dieting this might be a complicated question for you. You may have so many foods on your forbidden list that it might be hard to find anything you will allow yourself to eat. You might be so used to following a plan or a list of good/bad foods that you no longer know your own preferences —  or you might not feel you are capable of choosing after years of having others tell you what you should or shouldn’t eat.

Stop the food fight!

Start eating what you want.

Eliminate the concept of “good” foods and “bad” foods.

Eat what will be satisfying and will make you feel good.

Give yourself unconditional permission to eat.

This might involve a lot of experimentation. It might mean bringing back all the foods you’ve eliminated from your life because somebody, somewhere at some point said you shouldn’t eat them because they had “too many” calories or “too many” carbs or “too much” fat or that they just weren’t “good for you”.

Eat what you want and simply make mental notes of how you feel eating them, how satisfying they are and – importantly- how you feel after eating them. (Do you crash and feel like taking a nap or are you energized? Do you get a headache or feel great? Are you physically satisfied or do you feel drawn back to the kitchen to eat more 30 minutes later?)

The more you restrict the foods you really would prefer to eat the more likely you are to eventually binge on these same foods – or on other substitute foods that you stocked your kitchen with because they were supposedly “less fattening” or “better for you”.

Making peace with food means you no longer have to be conflicted when it comes to choosing what to eat. You eat what you want. You make love, not war, with food.

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